Are Bi-Sexuals Marriage Material?

Well, I'm sure everyone reading this is familiar with bi-sexuality or know of someone that is bisexual. You may have a partner that is bisexual, and not even know it! That's a whole other topic I will get into later. For those of you that don't know bisexuals are pretty much promiscuous people, having relations with both male and female.

I chose to open the floor up about bisexuals being marriage material, because I was in a relationship with a bisexual female. When we got together she told me she was bi and she had been involved with females before. I asked her if she was still into being with women she said no. I was cool with that didn't think anything else of it. Later on down the line she became pregnant. Five months into her pregnancy she tells me she wants to have a threesome. I was like are you serious right now you told me you were done with that life and it was a phase. She said, “it’s just a big fantasy of mind before I get married." I gave it little thought and told her I wasn't cool with this idea. She flipped out!

She told me I was crazy, any man would love to have this opportunity, and how her friends have real men because they're B.F. let them date other women and engage in threesomes. I didn't care what her friends did and how she viewed me as a man. I just knew I wasn't going to do something against my morals and values. So she started sneaking behind my back searching for women on the phone chats and the social networking websites. She was hanging out with lesbians and going to clubs with them and doing God knows what else with them. I caught her several times sneaking clothing in her car and catching her up in several lies. This made me somewhat insecure about what I thought was love and my relationship with her. I tried to make the relationship work without engaging in her activities, but allowing her to do them with other females. I ended up hurting myself and realized this isn't the kind of woman that I see as a wife. We broke up, and since we've broken up she said she put that bi-life behind her, and that it was all a phase because her hormones were out of whack from being pregnant. I heard that story before! You may wonder if we got back together and the answer is no.

From my experience I would have to say bisexuals are not marriage material. I think that bisexuals are unstable; men and women. I have seen how both bisexual men and women seem to not be able to commit to one side. From what I see bisexuals want the cake so they can eat it too. To each its own; I guess.

What do you think? Are bisexuals’ marriage material? Why or Why Not?

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